So, I guess
I don’t know what age tends to read this blog, but I want to give a warning
that this is about abstinence and sex. So, heads up….?
I kind of feel like it should be mentioned that except for Adam and Eve, it probably has been a struggle for marriages to stay sacred. Our culture has just tried to remove the stigma from it. There have been prostitutes, cheating spouses, and relationship drama for thousands of years. It’s always been more acceptable for men to “play the field” than women, but that doesn’t mean it has ever been a wise choice. Read about David or Solomon in the Bible, and you might not want to have multiple wives any more (It leads to way too many children too). If we really wanted to keep things simple, the best way to do that is to wait for someone who deserves you and who is committed to you (meaning marriage).
I am a virgin, but I can imagine wondering and having doubts about if I had slept with a guy. Was I good enough? What happens now? What if I get pregnant?
Also as a virgin, I can understand the frustration of waiting. Losing virginity sometimes sounds like this big, scary thing. What if it doesn’t go smoothly? Sometimes it seems like the not knowing how it will be is the worst. But that’s just a reminder that I want the man I give my virginity to the man who I know loves me and will never leave me. It seems much less scary and awkward if I have that to rely on.
So, how do we stay away from all the sex in this culture? I have no idea! The best solution I have found is to just be too busy with other stuff (Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. –Philippians 4:8). What you put in front of you (through movies, books, TV, ads, etc.) really does make a difference.
Keep waiting and trusting that one day it is totally going to be worth the wait.
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